Gender based violence is not just wrong. It is a public sin and goes against God’s image in every person. This was the strong message from Didi Walson-Jack, the Head of the Civil Service of the Federation. She spoke at a meeting in Abuja about stopping gender based violence in faith communities.
Faith Spaces and Gender Based Violence
Didi Walson-Jack said churches and other faith places must be safe for everyone. She explained that gender based violence happens even in faith spaces, and it must be stopped. Many people believe churches are always safe, but that is not always true.
She shared a sad fact — one in three women around the world faces physical or sexual violence. Often, it happens by someone they already know. This shows how serious gender based violence is and why people must talk about it.
The Church Must Be a Safe Place
She asked the church to be a “safe sanctuary” for victims. This means survivors should find care, not shame. They should not be told to “pray harder” or “forgive and forget.”
Many times, people use religion to excuse bad actions. But she said that is wrong. She reminded everyone that gender based violence is not private or cultural — it is a public sin. It is not God’s will and it breaks the respect and image God gave to both men and women.
Changing the Story on Gender Based Violence
To change the story, Didi Walson-Jack said the church must go back to the true message of the Gospel — love, justice, and equality. She reminded everyone of Genesis 1:27, where the Bible says God made both men and women in His image.
She also talked about how Jesus respected women. He protected a woman caught in sin and gave Mary Magdalene the message of His resurrection. This shows that women deserve value, respect, and leadership roles in the church.
Teaching Respect and Equality
She said boys and men should be taught that being strong does not mean being controlling. True strength means service and respect. Faith groups can teach young people about consent, good relationships, and mutual respect as part of Christian learning.
She praised the Anglican Compassion and Development Initiative (ACADI) for their work. The group, supported by the Ford Foundation, helps raise awareness about gender based violence. She asked faith groups to work with the government, NGOs, and community leaders to build stronger support systems for survivors.
Final Thoughts
Gender based violence is not something to ignore. It is wrong, sinful, and harmful to everyone. Faith spaces, families, and communities must speak out and act with love and fairness. Together, people can make the world safer and kinder for women and girls.
Conclusion
Ending gender based violence starts with speaking the truth and showing care. Everyone — leaders, churches, and families — must stand together to protect human dignity. Learn more about promoting gender equality and solutions to gender based violence at genderpedia.ng/shop.
